In film and television, there is still too much of women being portrayed as men or girls instead of being portrayed as women. From the clothing to the energy, to the way they carry themselves, it has been a problem for women culturally, particularly in Hollywood. There has been an oppression of women in this way. Women should dress like women and be like women, not like little girls or men. Women are to be free to be women and to embrace their feminine energy and feminine wisdom and share it with the world.
The best movies are the ones in which women are women, not men or girls. For certain roles, particularly action roles, a woman character may need to have a touch of masculinity. That is one exception, but even then, the woman should be mostly like a woman not a man. Another exception is if a woman is playing a character that is a girl. What I am referring to are not these two particular instances but to characters that are women played by women. It is important for women to be role models as women.
In my opinion, there should be a balance when it comes to substance use. I believe that coffee, alcohol, and marijuana is the extent of the recreational substances one should partake in having. Anything harder than that is dangerous and extremely harmful. The harder substances take people to an extremely low vibration. These substances will never provide the peace and happiness for which people take them; they will only drag people down into a deeper hole. These harder substances destroy lives, talent, and prosperity. Stay away from cigarettes, pills, and any of the harder substances.
When it comes to coffee, alcohol, and marijuana, I do not believe in sobriety. I feel that sobriety goes along with the nature of extremes in our culture, and I believe that a healthy balance can be achieved. Overuse of these substances stems from something other than the substance itself. Once the spiritual, psychological, emotional, and environmental problems that cause the overuse are addressed and resolved, there is no issue of overuse regardless of the chemical dependency of the body. A detox period can take care of that, and if the core issues are resolved, people no longer need these substances in high quantities.
It is best to tip well. It is important to me. The way I figure it is, I am out on a Friday night, and they are working. I always tip at least twenty percent. The only times I did not were when I could not tip by card and did not have cash, or during the time period when I was so poor, I did not have the money to do so. For that time period, I am truly sorry; believe me. I would only not tip well if the service was dreadful. Treat others well along your way. If you come across toxic people, be neutral, navigate away from them, and keep going.
Unfortunately, most people do not know how to love, and many are only interested in abusing others. Love yourself. Your own wellbeing comes first. Take good care of yourself. Treat yourself and others well. Protect yourself. To protect the wellbeing of yourself is to protect the wellbeing of all that is good in this world. By protecting your wellbeing, by feeling the best that you feel, and by being the best, you are protecting the happiness, peace, love, light, and good energy of all. It is your responsibility to cherish you. You have to do what is best for you because it is not only what is best for you, it is what is best for all. The right people will understand. You want to surround yourself with others who are in alignment with what is best for you and your highest self. What I want is to love and treat myself and others like royalty, but I must surround myself with others who do the same.
Many people are unkind to me because they are jealous for one reason or another. Perhaps if they knew what I have really been through, they would not feel that way. The people who are jealous of me when I am sleeping in a tent on the sidewalk need to get some help. Others are mean because they are abusive personalities and are only interested in destroying the good. I am interested in protecting the good, the light, the love, the peace, and the happiness in this world.
Love is not to abuse and/or harm. Do not give your love, kindness, and energy to toxic, evil people; it is like throwing it into a black hole. Part of love is not wasting it. Do not waste your time on people who are toxic. Avoid toxic, evil people who are full of it, and stay away from liars. Love is not immoral.
To love is with honesty, beauty, integrity, kindness, commitment, connection, truth, and all that is good and pure. It is eternal bliss and peace. Love is fun that never wears off. When you fall in love with someone, you just love him/her. I do not know what else to say.
We must rid the nature of extremes in our culture and in our world. It is a problem. There is poverty and extreme wealth, anorexia and obesity, and so on.
Ridding the nature of extremes holds true when implementing real solutions to our world's problems. The real solutions are not baby steps. They are big steps, but they are not the nature of extremes. The solutions need to be implemented through love not force and with the right intention not the wrong one. Also, incorporate the mind, body, and spirit. Real solutions include the entire well-being emotionally, physically, spiritually, mentally, not just materially. Start where you are. Work on improving the city or town in which you live and yourself as well.
We need to rid the world of poverty. Whoever romanticizes poverty is obviously a person who has never been poor. There is enough for all of us to live very well. It is already here. Instead of having poverty and extreme wealth, there should be a strong middle class. There will be some variation and some range; however, it does not need to be like it is now because that is ridiculous. I understand people who have a lot of money and want to treat themselves especially after working so hard for so long and maybe not having had any money at one point, but there is a fine line and a balance. There are also too many people with a lot of money who are not happy. Perhaps they will find happiness in putting that money toward the good in the world instead of trying to fill a void with it.
Your happiness is key. Work on your happiness. As I said before, there are evil people. All these people want to do is upset you and see you upset. Regardless of what they seem like, they cannot stand it when you are genuinely happy. Now I know sometimes you might not feel happy. When that happens, don't fake it. When you are upset, you are upset, but your happiness is very powerful. It drives evil away.
Work on the things you know you need to work on. You will feel much better. Be true to who you are. You will know the right way because you will be genuinely and purely happy. Your vibration will be extremely high. You will be how you are meant to be. You will look better, you will feel better, and you will be better. Just be yourself; that's all you have to be. It is evil that does not want you to be you fully; it is not the good. The good wants you to be you 100%.
When you feel weighed down or stuck amongst very low-vibrational people, pull yourself out of that low-vibrational place. Pull yourself up and out of it and stay out of it. Stay away from there; it's toxic. Also, stay away from being boxed-in. Boxed-in thinking is also toxic. There is a lot of toxic energy. This world is full of it, unfortunately. Stay away from the news. It is full of garbage and lies. Live a news-free life. You will be fine, and you will feel better. Trust me.
It is important to know that there are evil people on this planet. They are not here to love you, to help you, or for anything good. They are only interested in harming you. That is all they want and all they like to do. Stay away from these people. Anything that seems nice is fake and is a trap to abuse you. These people committed themselves to evil. They are poison and extremely toxic. Once you recognized them, stay away from them. They are here to do nothing but drain the good. I want everyone who is good to get out and away from these people so we can make the world a much better place.
The world does not have a money or a space problem; the world has a distribution problem. The money should go to good people, and the power should go to good people. Everyone who is good deserves a good life. Evil does not run this world. Many of us, myself included, have wasted enough of our love, kindness, time, energy, and money on useless, evil people, pathological liars, narcissists, abusers, psychopaths, rapists, perverts, child molesters, and sadists. No more. Good people are here, and we are tired of getting kicked around. We have had enough. There is no excuse for evil. Evil people can burn in hell where they belong. They can, and they will. Evil is ugly.
A world of peace and love is available to us. Evil has no purpose. It is time for the control, power, and money to be taken away from sadists, pathological liars, abusers, and all that is evil and for it to be put into the hands of the good. It is a new world. Stand up. To stop me, you'll have to kill me, and even then, my words will live.
The title, Coffee Chatter, derives from when I walk around and talk to myself with my morning cup of coffee. It is a great home office technique. Talking with oneself is a form of therapy. It helps to organize one's life and helps one to review things in one's life. It offers therapeutic benefits such as calming the atmosphere and sorting through various elements of one's life. It eliminates unnecessary conversation. Words are worth something. We should not waste them.
Whether you talk with yourself with a cup of tea, a glass of water, or a cup of coffee, it is an important part of life and is something in which more people should partake. It is homemade therapy, and it's free!
Writing is a way for words to breathe, for the truth to be set free. When we write, we explore the mystical depths of our souls. An enchanting world awaits us as we pick up our pens and pencils and write. Written in the words is our journey, our guidance, and our truth and feeling. There is nothing like fresh notebook paper in the morning, the rapid energy with which our fingers move when they type, and the compilation of words that tell a story.
We are here to write. We are the magic on the page. We are the wonders to behold in books and on movie screens. Before film, there is a story. There are the writers who bring their magic to the world. In the essence of writing, there is the writer who tells a story.
The main problem and cause of homelessness in Los Angeles is illegal drug use. Mental illness is also a factor. Homelessness is a problem, but it needs to be dealt with the right way. Instead of going to the extreme of trying to house everyone when there is not funding and are not resources to do that at this time, start by cleaning up the streets and cracking down on the illegal drug problem. Moving everyone from the streets into housing will just move the problems from one location to another. It is best to resolve and to crack down on the real problems.
Instead of fining people for not having their tents down during the day, fine people for littering. Fine people for doing illegal drugs. Also, in regards to the rule that people must have their tents down from 6am to 9pm, whoever created this rule should live on the street in a tent for several weeks, abide by that rule, and see how humane it is as it is not. It is an inhumane rule. What is also inhumane is to remove people who are homeless from bridges and underneath overpasses. The sidewalks are wider to abide by the rule to leave enough walking space for people to walk by. Furthermore, where are people who are homeless supposed to go to seek shelter when it rains and/or storms? Underneath the overpasses is one of the safest places to be.
People who are making these rules and regulations have no idea what it is like to be homeless and should not be allowed to do this to people who are homeless. Instead of forcing homeless people away from shelter and safety, these people should work on implementing a public place with restrooms, showers, and charging stations where people who are homeless can go shower, wash up, use the restroom, and charge their devices for free. If you are going to help people who are homeless with pets, be sure to buy the brand of pet food their pets eat. Pets cannot change their food brands overnight; it is not healthy for them. Another option is to get pet owners a gift card to a pet store.
Be respectful to people who are homeless. Try to put yourself in their shoes. Do not touch and/or discard people's tents and/or belongings period. Would you want someone to come into your house and go through your belongings? Have them clean it up. Have people keep their items contained inside their tent. Have them clean out junk and trash. I have been homeless, and I did not trash anything; I cleaned up the streets repeatedly.
Crack down on the people who are making the mess. Make them be respectful to their space and to public restrooms. Not every homeless person is disrespectful. Do not harass those who are being respectful. Target those who are being disrespectful, doing illegal drugs, and trashing the streets. Do not bother those who are down on their luck and/or destined for a different path and living peacefully. Target the real problems. Use discernment. Do not harass the people who are being respectful. Some people are homeless and out on the streets because they are destined for a different way, are in the process of no longer living with or associating with evil people, and/or will not be separated from their pets. To separate one from one's pet is inhumane. Treat people who are homeless based on their behavior not their situation. There are worse things than living on the streets like living with or under the roof of sadists. Many of the people who live on the streets are better people than people who live in houses and apartments that they do not deserve.
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